tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post116484376251775043..comments2023-11-05T07:27:52.847-05:00Comments on Olivia's Sunrise of New Beginnings: SignsOliviahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04014351759393921274noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1165073366337257862006-12-02T10:29:00.000-05:002006-12-02T10:29:00.000-05:00In some countries, women are supposed to be marrie...In some countries, women are supposed to be married, with children and pregnant by age 22. <BR/><BR/>Maybe, with liberation, we each of us can set out own personal 'cycles'. <BR/><BR/>That's all theory. <BR/><BR/>The emotions still get in the way.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I get so upset that I haven't done everything I've planned. That's why I need to sit and work on my list again...I do this when I feel I'm in a rut.<BR/><BR/>The thing is to stay cool while planning...or the disappointments can bog you down.neena maiya (guyana gyal)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01358313821005038118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1165039045833845242006-12-02T00:57:00.000-05:002006-12-02T00:57:00.000-05:00”Question: Why is being single supposed to be so g...”Question: Why is being single supposed to be so great?”<BR/><BR/>Because you’re free to date, there is the excitement of the unkown etc…:)<BR/>I myself don’t like to be single though, and had a horrible time when I was.You don’t need a man to be happy though. After her divorce, my mom was very happy and enjoyed her life to the fullest. One of my male friends once asked me,” When is your mom going to get married again?”<BR/>His question shocked me. I couldn’t understand why he assumed she had to get married again. I had never seen her happier as she was after the divorce :)Leiloutahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11423130301990752458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164988072409339592006-12-01T10:47:00.000-05:002006-12-01T10:47:00.000-05:00I think your friend is absolutely right about the ...I think your friend is absolutely right about the seven year cycle thing. I can definitely see that.<BR/><BR/>You're on a path, girl. Forward march!The Moody Minstrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16342935635794595909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164938992966959732006-11-30T21:09:00.000-05:002006-11-30T21:09:00.000-05:002 hour lunches blahdid u like my pics???2 hour lunches blah<BR/><BR/>did u like my pics???michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03235981849108305967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164932281486857662006-11-30T19:18:00.000-05:002006-11-30T19:18:00.000-05:00Jia Li! I went to cyworld. Another site! I thin...Jia Li! I went to cyworld. Another site! I think you've used up half the internet by now...!<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>Luna...wow.<BR/><BR/>Question: Why is being single supposed to be so great?<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>ML - people have been telling me that for years! But when I was 19 I thought I had all the time in the world, and then a decade passed...<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>JL - well, I am glad you decided to visit my page while you were bored, but sorry you are bored at school!<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>Katja - thanks. see you tomorrow I hope! xxx<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>Pandy - hey haven't seen you round here in ages. How DO you decide which blog to comment on?<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>GG - it is well known that today's young people reach major life milestones much later than their parents do.<BR/>No one ever pressured me, but since I started worrying, my mother is too.<BR/><BR/>Or what about the people who don't burn out and are living their lives on an even keel by my age? In a relationship with somewhere to live and a decent job. That's all I ask.<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>Comment to all:<BR/><BR/>Earlier this year my best friend was talking about our 7 year cycles, and the 29th year being the end of one of them. You go through a lot of personal turbulence and existential moments in preparating to emerge into 30. <BR/><BR/>Any thoughts?Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04014351759393921274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164910579254115862006-11-30T13:16:00.000-05:002006-11-30T13:16:00.000-05:00Definitely not coincidences. I think we're given ...Definitely not coincidences. I think we're given signs along the way.<BR/><BR/>I don't know about this 'achieving' by a certain age. I wonder who told us we have to have everything by age 20-something? Maybe the reality is 40-something, 50-something? I dunno. <BR/><BR/>Those who achieve too soon...do they burn out, by the way? <BR/><BR/>I've been going through this need for changes too...I need to work on my 'goals and tasks' lists...my map.<BR/><BR/>And by the way, you look like 22!neena maiya (guyana gyal)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01358313821005038118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164907970416793632006-11-30T12:32:00.000-05:002006-11-30T12:32:00.000-05:00I already commented on you p27 but ooh you put the...I already commented on you p27 but ooh you put the bunny pic up! Cute!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164907386098188042006-11-30T12:23:00.000-05:002006-11-30T12:23:00.000-05:00The signs sound good - I am crossing my fingers th...The signs sound good - I am crossing my fingers that they mean exciting things. xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164903842862826952006-11-30T11:24:00.000-05:002006-11-30T11:24:00.000-05:00yes, I didand I am bored de bored bory bordy bordy...yes, I did<BR/><BR/>and I am bored de bored bory bordy bordy<BR/>BORED! at school......<BR/><BR/>2 hour lunch sucks ass<BR/><BR/>j at schoolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164902432084899912006-11-30T11:00:00.000-05:002006-11-30T11:00:00.000-05:00I was born a week late and was still a late bloome...I was born a week late and was still a late bloomer! Didn't get married until I was 37 and never regretted it for a moment. Enjoy your freedom. The other stuff will come with time and you will be properly prepared :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164901632132292552006-11-30T10:47:00.000-05:002006-11-30T10:47:00.000-05:00Yanno Liv, I never thot I'd get married, ever. The...Yanno Liv, I never thot I'd get married, ever. Then it just blindsided me. WHAMMY!!! I was in a blues bar on Greenville and so was Dave, the rest is, as they say, history.<BR/><BR/>I'm not trying to rub it in, but let me tell you this: What you've got right now is really enviable. You live in London, ostensibly the cultural heart of the world, and you're single, gorgeous, and have so many friends. We can't blame you for wanting more, but fate works in mysterious ways. <BR/><BR/>Remember this: Whatever happens was meant to happen, only because it wouldn't be this life you'd be living. Just embrace it, Liv!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164891151182019702006-11-30T07:52:00.000-05:002006-11-30T07:52:00.000-05:00Jia - thanks chica. did you see my comment about ...Jia - thanks chica. did you see my comment about the parcels?<BR/><BR/>***<BR/><BR/>Mers - i thought you had Mr R!<BR/>and that's the thing, i don't even get any options to explore.<BR/>Hie me to a nunnery...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164869340644430742006-11-30T01:49:00.000-05:002006-11-30T01:49:00.000-05:00Then there's me, barely 5 months away from turning...<I>Then there's me, barely 5 months away from turning 30 with no career, no man, none of the children I thought I'd have, still unfulfilled and faffing about like a fool.</I><BR/><BR/>Girl, don't look at it that way! You might as well be describing me, then. :D Think: You're still young, pretty, available, unfettered by children, with the freedom to party all night if you want, and simply exploring your options until the right job/man/whatever comes along. Plus, you're living in London!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164852425479929992006-11-29T21:07:00.000-05:002006-11-29T21:07:00.000-05:00http://us.cyworld.com/jialifor pics of schoolhttp://us.cyworld.com/jiali<BR/><BR/><BR/>for pics of schoolmichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03235981849108305967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11083160.post-1164852387250656712006-11-29T21:06:00.000-05:002006-11-29T21:06:00.000-05:00u need hugs, many hugs.and will it help that ur xm...u need hugs, many hugs.<BR/><BR/>and will it help that ur xmas gift is on its waymichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03235981849108305967noreply@blogger.com